- Country
- Poland
- What happened
- A woman from Starogard County met someone on a dating portal who claimed to be a German businessman working on a Dubai project. Over several weeks he built a virtual relationship, said he needed money to finish the project and return to Poland, and asked for gift-card codes. After repeated purchases, she told her daughter, who recognised the manipulation. Police said the woman lost 240,000 złoty.
- Pressure pattern
- Long trust-building, romantic attention, promise of an in-person meeting, an overseas project story and escalating gift-card-code requests.
- Pause point
- When the online match first asked her to buy gift cards and send the codes instead of using normal payment channels.
- How Pausier may have helped
- Pausier could have helped by interrupting the code-sharing step and prompting a check: why is a dating contact asking for gift-card codes, and has a trusted person reviewed the request?
- Source quote
- Kobieta straciła 240 tys. zł